5 love languages...

12.07.2010,Monday

Thanks Margaret for letting me know the meaning of love.

Now only i know that love divide into 5 languages which is:

1. Quality times
2. Gift
3. Touch
4. Word of assurance
5. Act of services


I will try explain one by one,

1.Quality time
- meaning your lover will judge the love based on the time you spend with him/her.The more time you spend with him/her,the more he/she feel your love.

2.Gift
- judging from the gift give by you,the more gift she/he collect from you the more love she/he feel.Even a small gift also will make her/him happy.Not just material gift but also some action like smile is consider gift too.

3.Touch
- your lover need physical contact such as hugging,kissing,holding hand or etc.The more physical she/he get the more love she/he felt. Not only just physical touch but also something she/he do make you feel happy,sad,touch,anger and etc.

4.Word of assurance
- divide into 2 which is positive and negative,positive words such as saying something like making she/he a promise which you will keep in your mind. Something she/he feel like assurance for the both of your love.Negative words such as saying something which hurt each other feeling.

5.Act of services
- demanding something from your lover such as prefer mature thinking,high education and etc.

Some people read and express all the 5 language but some just do few. Yet everyone has priority of all these 5 loves. With ranking,by understanding your lover main love's languages helps you to understand more about him/her and also you.That is the function of understanding the love language.

Finally i know which type you are,hopefully i not too late for it. Ha ha update a bit after been educated more on this topic.